Somebody asked me about my ex… I told them I don’t have an ex, as an adult the only ex that would count is an ex-husband! I have a present day…. They proceeded with telling me to stop playing I said, “Pause, Bruh.” If I didn’t marry them, I have no kids with them, no property, no business then they DON’T count! I’m 43, get real everyone I went to dinner with I’m supposed to claim? If I must have an ex, I have 3: Tony, Robert and Victor. If you aint talking about one of them, I simply have no recollection. Okay, 4. I will claim Billy too since that was my first little love. (Right you don’t know those names, they weren’t on TMZ.) Anyone else is a simple…. a don’t count, and if you don’t know about those 4 names then you really don’t even know me, so why are you tryna have this conversation?
My point in posting this is why do so many of you spend time claiming people that are completely irrelevant to your present or future? Dating is about getting to know a person and once you know them well enough to know you don’t want to spend the rest of your life with them, why do people hold onto them like there was no life before them? There will be plenty more life without them too.
When the year mark hit, I asked myself this question “If it never gets any better than this…will I be happy spending the rest of my life with them?” It was time to erase a lot of my memory bank and move on. I have a whole family now, some of ya’ll need to erase my dating past outa your memories too. Hell, ask my brother, Twon. I don’t even remember some of the dudes by name. Hahaahahah.